Don’t Forget to Save This Shanghai Braised Pork Belly Recipe! Being asked “have you found a job yet?” is the question I dread the most about Lunar New Year. Like, how do I even explain to my Chinese aunts and uncles, whose children are all nurses and physicians, that I am a stay-at-home girlfriend who spends most of my time walking my dog and doing pilates. Sure, I am not living up to the Asian-American gold standard, but I will NOT be persecuted for living at my own pace. Plus, I can probably crush any one of my sucessful cousins at cooking, period.